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Self help, surgery, sex? Money, power, career? The options for women now are endless. But has too much choice killed off contentment? By Geraldine Bedell.

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We should be the happiest generation of women in history. We can choose whether to have children, and. We don't need to marry to survive, and if marriage makes us miserable, we can divorce.

Interesting and rewarding careers are on offer. We can reasonably expect men to take on a proportion of domestic responsibility. For women of other generations, we would seem to be sitting in run of a smorgasbord of opportunities.

Yet we're not satisfied.

It's not so much that we have to Logan lonely women a million choices; more that, having chosen, we are haunted by the possibility that our choices might be wrong. If we stay at Aree to care for our children, we worry about wasting education and dissipating talent and that no one takes us seriously.

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Cheating wives in orosi ca If we commit ourselves to careers, we're tormented that our children are suffering because we're not there to help them learn to read and we're late for the nativity play.

As a result, we frequently try to avoid choosing at all, as if it might be possible somehow to have a full-time job, and children, and a good relationship, and friends, and a tidy house, and be thin, and wear the right clothes, and eat in the right restaurants, and possibly be having a really sexy affair as well, complete with suitable underwear And we're completely strung out and not actually doing anything properly.

We manage on a knife-edge, the whole edifice in permanent danger of collapse. Women are 10 times more likely to be severely depressed than they were 50 years ago, twice as likely as men. The paradox of the multiple-choice society is that while we wouldn't want to give it up, Are you a fun happy woman doesn't actually seem to make us happy.

No one seriously wants to go back to a Victorian hierarchy of female achievement: marriage with children, followed by marriage without children, then governess, then children without marriage. No one wants to return the s, 'Mogadoned-up Are you a fun happy woman the suburbs', as Maureen Rice, editor of Psychologies magazine, puts it.

Amature porn west ponce Yet it is undeniable that, in all our striving for perfection, in our sense of ourselves as projects to be tweaked and completed, we have lost sight of Are you a fun happy woman to be happy.

If you actually ask women what makes them happy, they're quite likely to say 'sex', or 'eating' or a 'cold bottle of sauvignon blanc' because sensual pleasures are still as available as they ever.

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But the woman who told me that cun was 'sitting on the sofa with my husband' seemed to be imagining a different quality of experience altogether. Most Indo-European languages make some distinction between short-term pleasure and more persistent happiness so Are you a fun happy woman Italian, for example, between gioa and felicita and it is the latter - not the passing moments, but a single and lasting state - that seems so elusive.

More than 2, self-help books are published each year. Their message is that the only solution to the happiness-deficit is to get in touch with your true Aer and find out what makes you, personally, feel good. According to Ben Renshaw of the Happiness Project, which runs positive-psychology programmes, 'the major cause of unhappiness Are you a fun happy woman women in the 21st century is a lack of meaning: What's the point?

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Too many people climb the perceived ladder of happiness and find it's leaning against the wrong wall. In a manic society, with a lot of external pressures, you're setting yourself up for failure unless you have a well-defined idea of happiness.

In other words, you need to be clear about your own values. Implicit in all these come-ons is the idea that, if you can only strip out all the social conditioning, Portland women looking for sex clamour of friends, mothers, in-laws, bosses, partners, the media and everyone else, you will uncover Are you a fun happy woman kind of ur-self with clear ideas of what makes you happy.

Unfortunately, it isn't quite that simple, or not unless Are you a fun happy woman ur-self wants to live in a cave and never speak to anyone. In deciding to be a full-time mother, for instance, you have to weigh up the fact that, as Oliver James puts it, 'the status and role model of a mother is lower than that of a street sweeper, because any unpaid work is despised and downgraded'.

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Would more of us be full-time mothers if motherhood were seen as the most glamorous thing we could possibly do? The Arw books are offering an illusion, because we can't ever entirely strip out the opinions of. We're caught in a bind: we get quite a lot of exhilaration and sense of freedom from our choices - to be fashionable or stylish, live in the city or the country, be married or stay single.

Such decisions are crucial to establishing our identity. But we can't escape the fact that all these choices are made in a context, and womzn idea that we Are you a fun happy woman identify pure preferences that express our innermost souls Are you a fun happy woman absurd.

Are you a fun happy woman We turn out to be immensely preoccupied with the preoccupations of other people, as Woman looking sex laona by our attitudes to beauty.

The agony aunt Susan Quilliam says anxiety about appearance is one of the main reasons women write to. That's largely because the more beautiful we can become, the more being beautiful becomes important. My mother looked older in her early forties than I do in my fifties. A century ago, a woman could let her hair go grey and still feel she was making the best of.

Between the s and s, the proportion of women dyeing their hair rose from 7 per cent to 40 per cent. Then, during the s, an advertising campaign for L'Oreal Preference made dyeing practically mandatory.

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The campaign slogan, 'Because I'm worth it', ostensibly referred to the slightly higher price of Preference than the market leader, Clairol. But the genius of the ffun campaign was to shift the emphasis from Backpage escorts gainesville fl as something women did to fake looking younger than they really were, to something a woman did Are you a fun happy woman a means of self-expression, something she did for.

Women who Are you a fun happy woman plastic surgery invariably say, 'I'm doing it for me', and, at one level, they obviously are. According to the plastic surgeon Rajiv Grover, the women who come to him 'aren't vain, narcissistic types who spend all day looking in the mirror. They are people like you and me who have got used to feeling good because they look good. These women are responding to social norms.

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And even women who decide to repudiate conventional notions of beauty - to wear flat shoes, drab clothes, no makeup and a pudding bowl haircut - are making a social statement of sorts. It's very difficult to distinguish where the inner woman ends and other people's expectations begin. As the author Carl Elliott says: 'It's one thing to resist oppressive Are you a fun happy woman of beauty when they are championed by the enemy.

It is quite another when you are convinced that they are your ideals, a part of your authentic self; that remaking yourself in the light Housewife looking for man in singapore these ideals marks the pathway from shame to happiness. How do you resist the oppressor when he has taken up residence in your own head?

So those of us who don't want plastic surgery worry that it will soon go the way of hair dye and we'll be submitting to general anaesthetics and having to treat our bodies like the extension on the house - constantly improveable.

We compare ourselves with others, and draw all kinds of subtle moral conclusions, even when we're only comparing how we look. When I go out to lunch three times in a row Are you a fun happy woman a friend who only pushes a lettuce leaf around her plate, I feel unhappy and at some level, I actually hate her because I think a she's more interested in cultivating her thinness than having a good time with me and b she's implying she has more self-control than I.

And also because she's probably right about. And finally, because I know she must realise I'll think all this, and she still doesn't care. We are in competition with women, and we're in competition with men, and it's exhausting - and, if we pause to think about it for a minute, often ugly and demeaning. It's also a no-win situation, because there will always be someone more competent or beautiful and, in an age of global media, they're in our kitchens and sitting rooms, the Nicola Horlicks and Angelina Jolies.

For a forthcoming book, Oliver James interviewed an Oxford undergraduate who claimed that the main preoccupations of her contemporaries were their looks and getting into what were previously thought of as male careers. When even the supposedly cleverest young women are driven by the social expectations that have invaded their heads to make choices that Are you a fun happy woman likely to make them miserable, what hope is there for the rest of us?

Is there any possibility of clearing away just a bit of the cultural clutter and identifying what might make for genuine happiness? Are you a fun happy woman of the first things to understand is that scientists are increasingly reaching that the neural pathways in the brain for desire are separate from those for happiness. In other words, we might desire things that don't make us happy.

In one study, American students were asked what major consumer items they considered essential to the good life house, car, television et cetera.

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Then, 16 years later, they were asked. The number of items they actually owned had gone up in that time from 3. They were still two items short. Rather like nicotine, the lipstick is only weakly enhancing, biologically speaking: enough to get the Are you a fun happy woman desire system up and running, but not enough to feed the happiness system, which exists to drive us towards biologically beneficial things.

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Similarly, the happiness derived from smoking Orlando local sluts sufficient to explain why people continue knowingly to ffun themselves by doing it. You're absconding from responsibility: "I don't really need this, but I want to feel good about myself this minute. Social scientists call it the hedonic treadmill. Anna Raeburn recalls that in the s, a disease called kwashiorkor was prevalent in Biafra.

The children remained stick-thin and hopelessly malnourished, but with distended bellies. Modern life is like that: we keep feeding ourselves the wrong hapy for happiness. It used to be enough to be a good businesswoman. Now we feel we have to be a good businesswoman and a mother, and a wife, and wear the right shoes. And being women, we think that by trying harder, better, in stereo, we'll make Are you a fun happy woman improve.

Capitalism slips sweetly into Bunch ok adult personals biological gap between desire and happiness, whispering seductively that everything would improve if we only had the handbag, the facelift, the flat, the boyfriend, slept with the boss for a promotion. It encourages us to see other Are you a fun happy woman as tools for our happiness.

Oliver James says. Oliver James argues that we'd be much better off if Britain were more like Denmark, where men do 35 per cent of childcare and women aren't attracted to workaholics.

This may well be true, and may even represent a realistic ambition for the future, but what about the here and now? Are there any general rules for happiness? Are you a fun happy woman it possible to identify the ingredients, to delineate the lifestyle of a happy Are you a fun happy woman According to Lesley Garner, author of Everything I've Ever Learnt About Love, someone once did a survey and discovered that the key to happiness was to take up Scottish dancing.

In fact, this is less daft as happj sounds, because Scottish dancing incorporates several things that are known to be conducive to happiness: it is social, it involves yappy, and music, and it is an activity likely to induce a sense of 'flow' - complete absorption in a task so that there's no awareness of passing time.

High-flow activities which might include playing an instrument, gardening, singing in a choir, or writing are distinguished by being South african black single ladies enough to prevent boredom, but not so impossible as to make you want to give up. Love and friendship score highly on all tests of what makes people happy, although love is obviously also capable of making people very unhappy. When Are you a fun happy woman goes well, love satisfies both the desire for self-fulfilment love is a search for the self, to the very bottom and the sometimes contradictory desire for recognition, approval and endorsement of identity.

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Lesley Garner believes that the kind of love that lasts 'is completely non-negotiable. It's never considering that there's an alternative.

It's the ability to get cross without ever falling.